Why do women go through so much pain for men to look at us? I think it’s because we seek external approval to validate our existence. We feel that if we are perfect enough, then we will be worthy enough to attract and keep true love, the perfect man who will adore and respect us. But the truth of the matter is that no man is going to love and respect us more than we love and respect ourselves. Most women think that the perfect man is rich and a perfect provider… the alpha male. Read the characteristics of the so-called perfect man and then determine if you are a Barbie doll, a faded beauty or a timeless beauty.
Alfa male
Who are the alpha males? Hugh Hefner, Donald Trump, Michael Jordan, famous rich athletes, movie stars. Show me a rich and famous man, and I’ll show you a man who has a 99.9% chance of cheating in a committed relationship. The alpha male is the individual in the community who is followed and respected by others. Humans and their closest species relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community through ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or stepping aside when the alpha challenges. Canines also show deference to the alpha pair of their pack, by allowing them to be the first to eat and usually the only pair to mate. Alpha status is usually achieved through superior physical progress. Listed below are some of the characteristics of the human alpha male.
o When a man is extraordinarily wealthy, it doesn’t matter how physically attractive he is because his wealth is a girl magnet.
o Women will always throw themselves at rich, successful or famous men to improve their standard of living.
o Most alpha males, even when in committed relationships, will seek sexual intimacy outside of the committed relationship.
o Most alpha males have a hard time bundling sex, love, and loyalty into one package.
o Alpha males generally believe that they deserve to have more than one woman.
o Alpha males not only collect expensive cars, guns, cigars and antiques, their collection also includes sexual relations with beautiful women.
o Having a group of beautiful women is an encouraging and expected behavior of rich and successful men.
Alpha males need Barbie dolls to maintain their ultra-masculine male dominance status in society. Barbie dolls have the ultra-feminine features that complement their superior status.
Barbie doll features include:
o Barbie dolls are made of plastic. She must spend money on cosmetic surgery to maintain her youthful appearance at all costs. Implants, liposuction, rhinoplasty, breast lifts, cellulite removal, botox injections, chemical peels, and other techniques to maintain or gain your outer appearance are all necessary to compete for your affection and attention.
o Barbie dolls do not speak. Alpha men need a woman who is not going to complain about the long work hours, the time she spends with her “boys”, her relationship with other women and her lack of participation in the domestic affairs.
o Barbie dolls smile all the time. The alpha male needs a woman who will not reveal his unhappy feelings in the relationship. She will smile when she learns that he has conceived a child out of the committed relationship.
o Barbie dolls can be placed on the shelf when the alpha male is done playing with her. When he falls for a new younger, hipper, fuller-lipped model, he doesn’t have to worry about the long-term effects of heartbreak.
o Barbie dolls need and seek material accessories. The alpha male knows that as long as he is willing to buy her big, luxurious houses, expensive cars, and jewelry; he doesn’t have to worry about being faithful and loyal to the relationship. Barbie dolls need a lot of expensive monetary maintenance. The alpha male has the money to give him what he needs because he validates his wealth and prestige.
o Barbie dolls can travel or move at any time. She has a travel case that comes with her because she doesn’t have a career or goals that can’t be sacrificed or thwarted by an alpha male. It changes location according to the needs of the alpha male.
o Barbie dolls are always perfect and beautiful, even naked. Alpha males need trophy wives and arm pieces to accompany them to fancy events. Dieting, exercising and maintaining a flawless physical appearance are essential to remain attractive to the Alpha male. The desirability of the Barbie doll is based on her ability to keep the alpha male sexually interested and satisfied due to the competition and availability of other dolls.
o The youth and unchanging beauty of Barbie dolls is their greatest asset. She has a short lifespan. She must have as many children as quickly as possible to secure her financial future in old age when she is no longer attractive or unable to reproduce.
o Barbie dolls don’t ask questions. She is not going to question the alpha male about their future together, their assets or her bank account in Sweden. She doesn’t question prenuptial agreements because she knows that her time in the relationship is limited because she won’t be able to compete with the new models and editions that are released every year.
o Barbie dolls are hollow on the inside because they must have extremely low self-esteem to put up with the bullshit of the alpha male. The presence of the alpha male in your life validates your external existence. She believes that the outward physical appearance of her is the depth of who she is.
faded beauty syndrome
Have you ever noticed a woman who appears to be fifty-five years old, but is trying to look and act like she is twenty-five? A faded beauty is a woman who feels and projects into her behavior that her best years are behind her, and that her self-esteem and self-worth are based on her physical appearance and how she compares herself to other women. A withered beauty desperately clings to her youthful beauty for fear that without her she would be invisible. These are signs that you are a faded beauty.
o In high school, college, or in your youth in general, you were considered the most beautiful and attractive girl in the area. Guys adored you and you could have any man you wanted. Now that you’ve married and/or had children, you feel scruffy, old, and unattractive. Without your appearance, you have no idea who you are and where you belong in life. You spend most of your time thinking about how you used to look back on your heyday.
o You have not changed your hairstyle, makeup or style of clothing since you were seventeen years old. You psychologically compare yourself to younger women thinking to yourself how you could carry that man, if you were 10 years younger.
o Wear heavy makeup to hide bags under the eyes, wrinkles, and age spots on the face. You feel like you’re unattractive without your makeup, even when you’re going for a walk or running fast to the grocery store or gas station.
o Your focus is entirely on how you can improve or how you hate your appearance.
o You have not learned anything new in the last ten years. You don’t read books, you haven’t taken any classes, and you don’t volunteer your time. You are bored with your own life.
o If you talk to someone who hasn’t talked to you in 10 years, what new things would you tell them about your life? If you have nothing new to talk about, you are a faded beauty; not because of the natural changes in your physical body but because of the lack of change in your contribution to this existence, whether it be trying a new recipe or taking a dance class.
o She doesn’t like to leave the house because she doesn’t look like she did before giving birth to her children or simply because she gains weight. Withered beauties think that their self-esteem is nothing more than their physical appearance.
o You don’t bother buying new clothes or putting on makeup, because you feel you need to lose weight or have cosmetic surgery first before you can love and accept yourself.
Eternal beauty
Oprah Winfrey, Meryl Streep, Angelina Jolie, Barbara Streisand, Queen Latifah, and Sophia Loren are some of the women I consider timeless beauties. An eternal beauty is like wine, each passing year it becomes more beautiful than the previous year, not because of its outward appearance; no matter how physically attractive she is, but because of who she is on the inside, she exudes class, charisma, compassion, and personal integrity that is authentic and attractive. There is something special about her that is irreplaceable. Who is she… she is so powerful and wonderful that she is unmatched by other women and methods of physical enhancement.
Characteristics of eternal beauties
o Wear clothing that expresses their individual personality, soul, and body.
o Mesmerize and captivate people with their wisdom, ideas, empathy, and compassion for others.
o They are physically and psychologically irreplaceable. You cannot put another body, face or person in its place. Their personalities are dynamic and engaging, and when they are gone they will be sorely missed.
o They are not “drama queens” or “divas”, they are easy going and are team players. They have a humility and humility about them that is impressive.
o Are not involved in intimate relationships where they are not honored and respected by their partners. They are happy alone or in a committed relationship with a man who loves them unconditionally.
o Does not try to act or dress for a woman half her biological age. She looks healthy and enjoys being in her own skin and exudes inexplicable beauty. She has interests, talents, and abilities that she displays in a positive way. She enjoys volunteering and sharing her wisdom and life experiences with others.
o As you get older, your makeup becomes more subtle, not as a fashion statement but simply because you have learned over time that your true beauty cannot be hidden under makeup.
o Not afraid to say no. She has learned to honor her time on earth. She is not a people pleaser and does not allow others to impose her requests on her time.
o You have the confidence to express your own opinions, ideas, and beliefs without worrying about offending others. She is confident and wise enough to accept and respect opinions different from her own without feeling threatened.
o You can’t understand why she is beautiful. she just is