How do you like to think? Negative or positive? How do you analyze your life so far? Good, average or bad in general? Read on to discover how you can have better results in life.
Let me start with the following statement:
“Good thoughts bear good fruit. Bad thoughts bear bad fruit. And man is his own gardener.”
Do you agree with the above statement? Did a bell ring?
How can you have better outcomes in life, for example, in your relationships, career, spirituality, and work-life balance? Can you do better by thinking better?
This is what the statement in quotes actually means.
So how can you think better? You need to feel good about yourself. And the easiest way to do it is to smile. Start smiling and greeting everyone you meet throughout the day. You will receive smiles and greetings back. That would certainly make you feel better. And that makes you think better.
How can better thinking lead to better results? You will behave and speak better. Your body language will exude confidence. All this strengthens communication in the career and relationships. You have better things to say to Almighty God and thank him. Your spiritual connection is, as a result, enhanced. Life gets better and you find a good work-life balance.
How can you train yourself to think better? Because just like anyone else, your inner critic will let you have negative thoughts, most of the time.
The trick is to defeat this inner critic, get past it, and focus on positivity. What’s good about the current moment? Stay still for a few seconds. The answer will come to you soon. It can be a good conversation with a colleague over coffee, enjoying playing with his son, a hearty and appetizing dinner, a wonderful chat with a complete stranger and the list goes on.
So how can you beat your inner critic so that you can think better most of the time? Don’t believe it, tell yourself: It’s wrong and I have better things to think about. Ignore it completely. That way, you let more sunshine and positivity into your life. You are apt to say: That’s all. This is the kind of life I enjoy. This is how I would like it to always be.
So thinking better leads to better results. Believe it all the time and always try to surround yourself with positive things: an e-book/book on self-help, motivational quotes, positive friends and colleagues, and training to make your family feel positive too.