Although social media is very helpful most of the time, it can also burn a huge hole in a relationship. But how do you define a real relationship? In the opinion of many people, a real relationship implies respect, love, communication, passion and dedication.

Unfortunately, yes, social media can break even the most difficult relationships. Here are some of the mistakes you can make on social media that will lead to your breakup:

  • Being in a relationship on social media more than in real life – You keep posting cute things on their timeline, sharing photos with deep thoughts written on them, but in real life they barely speak. Not to mention, you fight a lot and have absolutely no respect for her when you argue. Or maybe your attention for her is only on social media. This is a mistake that can ruin your relationship.
  • you overshare – As long as you don’t know how your partner feels about you checking in every time you go out or posting pictures about your activities together, I’d say don’t. Sharing too much personal information about your partner can erode your relationship, especially if your partner is more of a private person.
  • don’t be crafty – I’m not suggesting that your partner should know your password for every account you have. But if you are used to turning the computer screen or phone screen when your girlfriend tries to peak her, you will find yourself guilty of several things. And yes, you may be innocent, but innocent people don’t feel the need to hide their social media accounts.
  • talking to other people – I understand the concept of friendship, but at the same time, it’s one thing to be friendly, and quite another to be flirtatious. There is a line between these two and you have to be very careful not to cross it. It won’t do your relationship any good.
  • Stay in touch with your ex – You’ve stumbled upon her profile, looked at her photos, and the next thing you know, you started chatting. You know that’s wrong, but you deny it in your head, telling yourself that everyone does it at some point in their lives. And when your partner suggests that this conversation should stop, you take offense. If this scenario sounds familiar, let me inform you that this action could erode your relationship.

Real relationships are built on trust and communication. You can’t trust a person who hides their phone or turns their desk away from you and definitely not a person who still keeps in touch with her ex. At the same time, communication is an open and honest act, and you can’t be honest with your loved one if you hide things. Not all relationships are created equal, but most of them can be eroded by social media if the couple makes some of the mistakes listed above.

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