Do you know how to make your ex girlfriend love you back and how you can make her love you even more? Not many men do it, but it is possible. It’s about understanding her wants and needs, even if you’ve cheated on her, though if you’ve cheated on her, she’ll need a lot more than an apology and a box of chocolates. Men seem to think that once a woman is done with them they should start calling or following her until she changes her mind, this is wrong. If you don’t start by giving her some space, she won’t start to feel like you’ve drifted apart.
As difficult as it sounds, you should stop what you’re doing and let her have some time to miss you, don’t worry, she won’t forget you.
If you’re like most men, you probably have no idea what to do next, this is normal, a man usually wants to charge like a bull in a china shop, which will always do a lot of damage. You need to relax a bit, let the air clear and think about what went wrong and when it went wrong.
No one expects you to be able to remember every argument or fight, but you should be able to see some sort of pattern. Do you argue every Sunday after a night out with your friends? Do you constantly fight when you embarrass her in front of others? As much as you want to deny it, there will be something you do that she really doesn’t like. A lot of guys do things that they find funny, but women find them annoying or silly, a guy will often say something like “relax, it’s just a little fun”. If a man puts himself in a similar situation where he’s made to look stupid, he’ll go crazy with the one who embarrassed him, but he thinks it’s okay for him to do it with others.
Are you starting to see a pattern yet? Now I’m not saying this is always the case and I’m using these as examples so you can look back and see if there’s anything that fits into this category.
Sometimes, sorry isn’t good enough no matter how much you mean it and you really have to work to get it back. If she is really special and you love her enough, you will do whatever it takes to make things right. If she gives you a second chance, you really need to learn from your mistakes and not let things go back to the way they were when you broke up.