There’s a cute boy you keep seeing. You can meet him in class, on the way to work, or even at your favorite place to hang out. A few times now, you noticed that he was staring at you. Unfortunately, he still hasn’t made a move to come talk. Therefore, he is confused about what does it mean when a guy keeps looking at you. Does that mean he likes you? If so, why not start the conversation? Should you take the first step? Read on so you can decide whether to move on or take steps to move forward in a potentially fun and great relationship…
This is the main reason why a guy keeps looking at you….
He looks at you because he is curious about you. It also means that, for now, he finds you more interesting than the other things going on around him. While this shows the potential that he likes you, consider the following before rushing into an introduction to him…
How does he BEHAVE when you look at him?
Does he look away or smile? If he looks away and pretends he wasn’t looking at you, I’ll do my best to ignore him. After all, a guy who is seriously attracted to you absolutely find the courage to look at you, at least to let you know that he is interested in you. Think about it: if a man can’t even work up the courage to show his interest, how can you trust him to stand up and protect you in the future?
When a guy keeps looking at you, but turns away when you look at him, his actions reveal that he is interested in looking at you, but doesn’t want to interact with you…
You may not like hearing this, but a very possible reason why he isn’t flirting with you could be that he’s already in a relationship with another girl! So while it’s safe for him to look at you, you don’t want to jeopardize his relationship by flirting with you. Very often, a guy who is already chasing a girl will not risk wasting his efforts. He knows that by ‘flirting’ with you, he could ruin his chances with the girl he’s really interested in if she finds out. This is a very possible reason why he doesn’t smile at you when you look back at him.
Similarly, if a guy smiles at you when you look at him, it means that he is eager to interact with you. At this point, if you like him, give him a smile too. This lets him know that you are receptive to him, which will give him more courage to come over and talk to you. The truth is that when a guy is very attracted to a woman, he can’t help but want to meet her. He will get over his shyness for a girl he is crazy about. If the guy you like doesn’t make the first move, save yourself the headache and appreciate guys who are willing to “go out” for you. Those are the kind of guys who deserve your time and attention. Not the guys who don’t like you enough to ask for your number and ask you out.